Navigating the legal aspects of divorce can be overwhelming, but choosing the right attorney can make all the difference. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan are joined by Jamie Berger and Sarah Jacobs, co-founders of Jacobs Berger, LLC, to discuss the four key things every divorcing individual should know before hiring an attorney. Their insights offer valuable guidance for anyone preparing to embark on this challenging journey.

One of the most significant takeaways from Jamie and Sarah’s discussion is the importance of practicality in legal representation. Divorce is not just about applying the law; it’s about understanding your goals and crafting a strategy that aligns with your unique circumstances.

Jamie shared, “The law provides a framework, but it’s the practical approach that truly impacts families. Attorneys need to listen to their clients, understand their needs, and create solutions that work for their lives.” Look for an attorney who will take the time to understand your specific situation and provide tailored advice rather than a one-size-fits-all approach.

Your relationship with your attorney should feel collaborative, not prescriptive. Sarah emphasized the importance of finding an attorney who engages in meaningful dialogue with their clients. She noted, “An attorney should empower their clients by providing options and helping them navigate decisions that align with their values and objectives.”

The best attorneys don’t just dictate a course of action; they work with you to build a plan that reflects your priorities. This partnership approach ensures that you feel heard, respected, and supported throughout the process.

Not every divorce situation requires full litigation representation. For some, a consultation retainer can be a more flexible and cost-effective solution. Jamie and Sarah described the consultation retainer as a “phone-a-friend” model—a way to access legal guidance as needed without committing to a traditional retainer agreement.

This approach is ideal for individuals who:

• • Are considering divorce but aren’t ready to proceed.
  • Need occasional advice during mediation or settlement discussions.
  • Want to avoid the high costs associated with full representation.

By offering this option, Jamie and Sarah’s firm provides a valuable resource for those who need support without the pressure of a formal legal process.

Divorce is not just a legal process—it’s a financial, emotional, and logistical one. Jamie and Sarah stressed the importance of working with a team of professionals to ensure every aspect of your case is addressed. From financial advisors and tax strategists to mental health professionals and career counselors, these experts can provide critical insights that complement your attorney’s work.

Sarah added, “Understanding the financial and practical implications of decisions is key to long-term success. Collaborating with the right professionals helps clients make informed choices that align with their future goals.”

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Final Thoughts

Choosing the right attorney is one of the most important decisions you’ll make during your divorce. By focusing on practicality, collaboration, and tailored support, you can ensure that your legal representation aligns with your unique needs.

At My Divorce Solution, we understand the value of preparation and partnership. Our Divorce Financial Portrait™ provides the financial clarity you need to approach your case with confidence. Whether you’re considering mediation, litigation, or a consultation retainer, we’re here to guide you every step of the way. 

Ready to take the next step? Connect with us today to learn how we can help you navigate your divorce journey with clarity and confidence. Send us a message at Hello@MyDivorceSoltion.com