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Divorce Tips for Dads

Divorce Tips for Dads

In this episode of We Chat Divorce, we’re talking about dad’s side of divorce, and the importance of keeping our kids out of the line of fire during the divorce process. We discuss the importance of spending time with our kids and how to avoid abusing our financial situation.

In this episode we chat about:

  • Shifting blame away from your kids for your decisions
  • The importance of showing up consistently for your kids 
  • Avoiding using finances as an advantage over your ex

Dad’s and Divorce: Navigating the Emotional Roller Coaster

In today’s episode of the “We Chat Divorce” podcast, we delve into the complex and often turbulent journey of Dads Managing the Emotional Roller Coaster of Divorce. Join us as we explore strategies to navigate this challenging chapter with resilience, intention, and a clear sense of purpose.

Our special guest for this episode is Ralph, the Founder of Dad Starting Over. Ralph is a prolific author with four books under his belt, including the widely acclaimed “The Dead Bedroom Fix.” He has created a supportive community for men called The DSO Fraternity, where individuals can find guidance and connection during their life transitions.

Throughout our conversation with Ralph, we’ll uncover valuable insights on how to stay composed amid the emotional whirlwind of divorce, ensuring that you don’t become entangled in the web of emotional distractions. Whether you’re a dad going through a divorce or simply seeking wisdom on managing life’s toughest challenges, this episode promises to be an enlightening and empowering discussion.


About My Divorce Solution

We Chat Divorce is produced by My Divorce Solution (MDS) — a financial divorce preparation company dedicated to helping individuals navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and a strategic financial plan. Founded by Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison, and Catherine Shanahan, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), MDS was created to solve one of the most common and costly mistakes in divorce: entering the legal process without fully understanding your financial picture.

Divorce is not just a legal event — it is a financial transition that can shape your long-term security. Through the MDS Divorce Financial Portrait™, clients receive expert financial analysis, organized financial disclosures, and scenario planning to understand how different settlement decisions impact their future. This financial preparation often reduces legal fees, shortens the divorce process, and helps individuals negotiate from a position of knowledge rather than fear.

If you are considering divorce or already in the process, you can begin by taking the Free Divorce Financial Assessment to better understand your options. You can also join the MDS Community for expert guidance, educational resources, and live Q&A events designed to help you move from uncertainty to clarity.

At My Divorce Solution, the mission is simple: replace fear with knowledge so you can make informed, confident financial decisions during divorce.


The We Chat Divorce podcast (hereinafter referred to as the “WCD”) represents the opinions of Catherine Shanahan, Karen Chellew, and their guests to the show. WCD should not be considered professional or legal advice. The content here is for informational purposes only. Views and opinions expressed on WCD are our own and do not represent that of our places of work.

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